MySQLは行の前に選択します

これを試してください：

select * from test where callValue = 'val3'  
union all  
(select * from test where callValue < 'val3' order by id desc limit 1) 
union all  
(select * from test where callValue > 'val3' order by id asc limit 1) 

または

select * from test where id = 8
union all  
(select * from test where id < 8 order by id desc limit 1) 
union all  
(select * from test where id > 8 order by id asc limit 1)