Wordpressユーザーとusermeta-1つのテーブルの複数の行を別のテーブルの1つの行に結合する

私の知る限り、あなたはそれを正しい方法で行っており、それらをすべてまとめる必要があります：

SELECT
    u1.id,
    u1.login,
    u1.password,
    u1.email,
    m1.meta_value AS firstname,
    m2.meta_value AS lastname,
    m3.meta_value AS country
FROM wp_users u1
JOIN wp_usermeta m1 ON (m1.user_id = u1.id AND m1.meta_key = 'first_name')
JOIN wp_usermeta m2 ON (m2.user_id = u1.id AND m2.meta_key = 'last_name')
JOIN wp_usermeta m3 ON (m3.user_id = u1.id AND m3.meta_key = 'country')
WHERE
    -- CONDITIONS ON the user you want to select based any field